Online support, advice, help to get your life back on track

How to get one's life back on track is often a really hard decision to make. For a start, you have to take the time to even make that decision, and then you have to take the time to work out what you need to do in order to get your life back on track. Why not consult a professional who can easily help you plan strategies for reorganising your life so that it works the way you want it to? Why not make life easy for yourself as well as successful? Online help for sorting your life is the way to go. It can be done quickly with minimum amount of emotional stuff stopping you from achieving your potential. Online help is effective, problems can be identified quickly, easily and painlessly. New plans can be formed and implemented and all from the comfort of your desktop. Try it now with Life Coach, Ruth on inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com 

How do you know things are changing and becoming more succesful?

When you look at your outer world to determine if there is change/success, and there apparently is nothing  that seems to be different, what do you think? I know, because I've fallen into this trap. You start thinking exactly that, that nothing has changed. However, if you bring trust into the equation and know that there is a build up of energy happening in the inner planes of consciousness, then you also know that it is inevitable that that energy will manifest into the outer plane of consciousness. It is only then, that you will see the effects of all your hard work! So stick to it. It is really about understanding the physics of the situation and understanding the laws of energy, to be precise, the Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy, see John Assaraf. This law states that all energy is constantly flowing from one form or vibration to another, and also from the non-physical plane to the physical plane. Thank goodness for physics!

Praise

Praise everything, including yourself.
This will bring out the good in everything, including you!
Even praise the bad because that too will bring out the good. Try it now and see for yourself.
Remember to praise yourself. Often!

Focus

When you focus all of your energy consistently over time, you build up within your consciousness, an idea, an image of whatever it is, and then you are in a position to create. First, within, and then without. But of course this manifestation of your desire in the outer world must come from action. And you must be the one to action it. Remember, first, focus your energy; second, take action.  

One thought

You can only hold one thought in your consciousness at one time. So if you have two opposing thoughts, one says I am poor, and the other says I am rich, only one of them actually hold energy for you in your mind. If you are poor and want to be rich then probably the thought that says I am poor , is predominant. You must no longer hold it in your consciousness, for the riches to come in.

What do you see?

We all do it. We all create things.But sometimes we stay with things that we don't want, or things that even used to work but not anymore. Learn to see things as they really are, not what you think they are. Examine your thoughts daily to uncover what you really think. Oh that's too scary, you say. That may be true, but imagine the scare these same thoughts do you every day if you don't look them in the eye.

Service to the LGBT people of the world

I was listening to yet another brilliant John Assaraf video and he talks about giving service. Because I am a lesbian and because I have had to deal with many related issues and others in my growing up, I am in a great position to help others with my Life Coaching skills. I want to particularly work with LGBT people and ask for people to contact me. I can help them deal with life issues, with blocks to their self esteem and their success in life. I am also a great encourager, and I say, go for it! You can do it. 

appreciation

Just when you think it's been raining for 3 days now, so therefore it's never going to stop, the sun comes out. How many of us think that just because something happens once then twice, that it's always going to happen? And how often during that time, do we forget to appreciate what it actually is?  Remember to appreciate everything because as sure as eggs break, change will happen. It is one of the certain things in life, along with taxes and death. have fun appreciating!

How do you make it easier?

If something is mandatory but you don't really like doing that particular thing, how do you make the situation easier for yourself? You attach something you do like to the something you don't like, and in that way you focus on enjoyment rather than struggle. You also painlessly get the thing you didn't really like, done. Check it out!

Success - NZ passes same sex marriage

Historical moment - NZ passes  same sex marriage bill into law! Well done all who have fought for this right to choose.Fantastic. And thanks from myself and my partner who can now be my wife!

John Assaraf's second level of the foundation of success

His second level of the foundation of success is the emotional level. When you are able to release all your anxieties, worries, doubts, angers, depressions and so on, and add that state to your first foundation of success, which is a trusting in the oneness and goodness of all, then you are on the way to success. I totally agree and thanks John.  

It must be called the ego

Have you given up trying things over and over and they don't work? Like you've been beating your head on the brick wall, but you don't want to give up. So a good way to approach this problem is to go back to the original source of information and hey it is all revealed so easily! How is it that we sometimes think that we know better than the person who has done this stuff before you?? Ridiculous stuff huh? It must be called the ego!

Do you think you are a failure?

Do you recognise opportunities to success?

need help?

What happens when you need help? Do you

• think to yourself, oh it doesn't matter, I can make do without it?
• rant and rave and get angry that things aren't going well?
• finally ask for help?

This morning I was trying to get something sorted, and I did a combination of the last two points, and by my asking for help, everything started to fall into place. Thanks, Rhona, my darling.

beware making assumptions

My partner recently gave me a puzzle to do out of New Scientist June 2012 which was about creativity.
The problem was III=III+III . My task was to move one of the sticks only to make the sum work out correctly. I foolishly made the assumption that it was a mathematical equation and hence decided that there could be only 1 equals sign. I couldn't solve it. I now know what the answer is, but I'm going to leave you to guess. The point is, that I made a wrong assumption and therefore I couldn't get it!

expectations

If you don't have expectations of something happening in a particular way, then you are not going to be disappointed if it doesn't happen or if it happens not as quickly or as well as you thought. So out with expectations I say! Especially if they relate to other people at all. For yourself, you can monitor your expectations and make them as realistic and goal oriented as you wish. Be kind to yourself, and if the fog of disappointment descends because you weren't watching, hit it over the head, breathe a sigh of gratitude and remember that it is there to remind you what not to do! have fun.

Self Talk

If the weather turns bad outside and is grey when you wake up, do you

• think grey thoughts
• think oh well, and thankyou for  lovely sleep and now I am getting on with my exciting day?

It is worth noticing how you react to the weather and try not to let the weather dictate your day!
have a good one!

InCharge Life Coaching Online

I want to thank Phil Linklater for directing me to this blogger site. With much appreciation Phil!

Which reminds me, are you incorporating gratitude into your life? I have this as part of my wake up retinue and I must say it makes me feel good. This is a photo taken over the beautiful Sunset Beach, Port Waikato, NZ. ( opposite end of day but this sunset but just as grateful for it)