happy new Year everyone

Whether you believe in the new energy coming in now or the Chinese new Year February 8th is in a way immaterial because for someone on this planet on this auspicious day, new things are beginning.
How about no more Complaining, controlling or Cutting Off as a new resolution?
What was yours?
comment below or write to Ruth on inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com
have a great new Year and blessings to you

Saying goodbye

It's important at the close of the year to say goodbye, to have closure on as many projects as you can, to have relationships healed in as many instances as possible, and most importantly
to learn from your mistakes so you don't have to do them again next year.
Be very very aware as the new energy comes in!
And bon voyage.

What Paulo Coelho says about needing time for oneself.

He says " The warrior needs time for themselves. They use that time for rest, contemplation, meditation, relaxation and reflection.

Little by little everything that once seemed complicated begins to become simple.

Healing or shifting energy can be instantaneous

Healing or shifting energy can be instantaneous!

It is only because we are conditioned to believe that healing takes a long time that it always does - take a long time.

Remember we have been believing this about energy shifting or healing from ever since we first heard of the words. 

And remember that power is in the NOW.

Go to it and have fun.

Another quote from Paulo Coelho

The warrior of light is now waking from their dream.

This is you by the way that he's talking about.

You think "I do not know how to deal with this light that is making me grow." 

However the light does not disappear.

The warrior thinks "Changes must be made that I do not feel like making."

The light remains, because 'feel' is a word full of traps.

Then the eyes and heart of the warrior begin to grow accustomed to the light. 

It no longer frightens them and they finally accept their own Legend, even if this means running risks.

The warrior has been asleep for a long time. 

It is only natural that you should wake up very gradually.

Isn't that amazing stuff?

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Paulo Coelho's quote about inner growth

Paulo Coelho's quote about inner growth for the warrior of light.

They pay attention to the things they do automatically, such as breathing, blinking or noticing things around. They do this when they feel confused, and in this way free themselves from tensions and allow their intuition to work more freely, without interference from desires and fears.

Certain problems that appeared insoluble are resolved, certain sorrows vanish naturally. 

They use this technique whenever faced with a difficult situation.

believe in yourself

Believe in yourself and believe in your dreams.

Really believe in who you are and what you want and

have a great Xmas!

A small trick I heard last night

A small trick to move on unwanted thaoughts

is to simply click on the delete button. After all, you are a bit like a computer (only better) and your programs that have been installed about lack of abundance, not good enough as the two biggies for most people, are only that, programs.

So if you imagine your subconscious mind as storing a variety of programs, you can then select the appropriate ones and delete. Equally you can select the programs you want to become your dominant thoughts and double click and enlarge and lighten.

Thanks to Richard Luck for sharing his ideas.

Old dogs learn new tricks

Old dogs learn new tricks - it'sa a cinch if you know how - according to David Robson (New Scientist)

David Robson itemizes 3 points that make an adult learner as good as (and sometimes better than) a child learner.

He says ideas do get fossilised over time, and its actually the adults lifestyle that may be the biggest obstacle to learning. And this includes their perfectionism.

To counteract that

when the adult 1) keeps fit

                       2) uses that spare time to learn something rather than blob in front of TV or dream off when                               waiting at the bus stop

                        3) throw yourself into a task rather than agonising over all the details 

                        4) use a carousel approach by rotating through different skills you need rather than                                             practising endlessly over one small component of the task

QU: You may ask why this is all relevant here? 

ANS: You are learning a new you, so you need new ways of dealing with new skills.

a good idea to keep grounded

A good idea to keep grounded aka to keep connected, is to boost your memory.

Because what you're really trying to do is remember who you really are (or are becoming).

Remember that you have made a decision to yourself and the universe to get better and better at whatever it is you have chosen to do; remember that you have decided that gratitude and forgiveness are a good choice; remember that you have the support of the universe to do so.

Take care and go for it!

Check out these inspiring quotes from the esteemed Bob Proctor

http://mindvalleyacademy.com/featured/bob-proctor-quotes

More on how to live the laws of the universe

Live them! The best and simplest way is to align yourself to the Life Force every moment you have to think about it. So in between your jobs, your interactions with family, your interactions with the daily stuff of living - know you are connected. Acknowledge it and feel the difference!
I don't mean just say to yourself - oh yeah man! I'm connected lol!
I mean breathe in that connection and recognise your part in that relationship, feel yourself fill with energy and safety and security like no other you've ever felt before!
try it and see...

More on how to use these laws in your everyday life

If you have pain in your body, the old way is to experience the pain and perceive it as negative and a pain in the bum or wherever!
A new way, using the law of attraction(and associates) could be to experience the pain, love it and to actually send love to that part of the body where you are experiencing it! Sounds pretty weird I know, but try it before you think too cynically of this idea.
You are then using the law of attraction to bring more love (and healing) into this part of your body because the love you focus on your body will attract more of the same.
It is law!

How not to slip back into old habits

How not to slip back into old habits means being totally aware of everything you do, say and think.

It's a continuous adventure. You know, things come up in your life where you've habitually reacted in a certain way. But now you know the laws, you can become the Observer of yourself and for yourself. You will remember that you always have a choice, and the choice is a conscious one. Do you want to react in the old way, or did you make a decision to change? Do you want to stay with that decision or couldn't you be bothered? If the answer is you couldn't be bothered, then you will remain the same as you were before you made that decision and all that hard work.

Is that what you want?

It really is continuous work. 

No successful person grew that way from the beginning. They all had to work at it. 

But I tell you, it's fun catching yourself out, after you've given up not forgiving yourself for not being perfect!  

So now you know it all

Now you know it all intellectually how do you put all these laws into practice?

Well, you have to become aware of what you're doing.!

I have a friend who was telling me that she was particularly thinking about the law of attraction and how in the past she had always thought that there wasn't enough! Sound familiar?
She started to become aware of her thoughts and realised that even in small things she had often thought there wasn't enough - or that there was a lack. When she put the washing out and went to the cupboard to get  free coat hangers to hang the shirts, she found that she often thought there weren't enough hangers for the shirts!! silly little things like that. She took the hangers for the shirts and found to her surprise that were plenty of hangers, in fact more than enough Or she thought "oh there's not enough time to do everything this morning so I'm going to have to rush etc" But of course there is always plenty of time for everything..
WOW when she realsied what she was projecting to the world, she put a stop to it.
How about you?
Email me and let me know how you get on at inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com or make a comment below.
Thanks!

The Law of Obedience according to Bob Proctor

The law of obedience is about following the laws.

This law is the one I balked at most! because of the name and because I'm not a very obedient person. However, I now know Bob's correct.
What this law is saying is, that the more precisely you adhere to the laws of the universe, the more precisely will be the success that you want.
 Bob says we've been programmed to be good little go getters but the law of sacrifice clearly says give and then you'll receive. don't hang on to things!
So we need to look at what society says and see if you agree or not.
He gives an example of compliance - we use nature's seasonal laws to grow X in X season not in Y season and so on to produce maximum growth. The same is true of our lives - plant the seeds of success you want in the richest soil possible, and your life will be success.
Bob says you must understand all these laws in order to live in harmony (obedience) with the natural order.
How do you go on that?

Law of Sacrifice according to Bob Proctor

The law of sacrifice is about letting go something of lesser value to you to welcome in something of higher value.

For example if you don't sacrifice your grumpiness for a friendship or partnership, thern in effect you will be sacrificing your friendship(or partnership). Something has to be sacrificed or let go of in order to create the vacuum for something else to come in.

people everywhere are awakening to the necessity of disciplining their thoughts. We train animals, harness the forces of nature to work for us, yet we can't control our minds and emotions (particularly).

We have to work on our mind control daily, our self talk, our emotions to make the new part of our controlling paradigm. We have to consciously choose it and patiently persist. Acknowledging we aren't all angels, but we're focusing on where we're going.

Bob Proctor reckons if it doesn't get better, then it'll get worse.

I know he's absolutely right. Thankyou Bob!

 

Law of supply according to Bob Proctor

The law of supply says there is an infinite supply of everything you desire.

Knowledge, money, success, health, energy, abundance is 100% present in every place silmultaneously. 

Desire is the force that triggers that infinite supply. It is there everpresent from the Life Force. It makes no distinction about what or who you are or aren't.

The problem as Bob sees it, is that we don't really believe that the Life force is the source of all.

Everything ( which is energy) is constantly changing. 

He says that as long as you plant seeds of lack, that's what you will attract. When you don't consider that there is plenty,in other words, then you are also going to have lack. When you hold seeds of lack then that's what your order to the Life Force is.....lack. As you think, so you attract.

What is your order to the Life Force?

As long as you live with your sensory faculties telling you what and how to respond, you'll have struggle.

Open your eyes and see that there is no lack and no limitation, only supply. 

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Thanks!

The law of Increase according to Bob Proctor

The law of increase is exactly that - whatever you praise, increases.

So when you praise the good that increases, but equally when you praise the bad, that also increases. What does this mean? It means that when you criticise something or someone, that that attribute tends to increase, and when you heap praise on someone that too brings more of the same. When you send loving energy & praise to a flower, they have longer life; when you praise your Source of ssupply, the Life Force, that quickens.

Try it and you can feel it, because what it does is to change your perceptions, and that in turn changes your vibrations and then your behaviour, and then your life!

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Read about the joyous, peaceful, forgiving Nelson Mandela

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/12/06/nelson-mandela-inspired-others_n_4396247.html?ir=Black%20Voices&utm_campaign=120613&utm_medium=email&utm_source=Alert-black-voices&utm_content=Title

The law of non-resistance according to Bob Proctor

The law of non-resistance basically says that what you resist, persists!

Bob Proctor reckons we are programmed to resist resistance. When someone yells at us we have been told to yell right back. Try letting them yell, let it wash over you, but not into you. Whenever you react, whatever is causing you to react, wins and you lose. When you learn to respond, you win.

Reacting is a habit and responding is thinking. So guess which one Bob Proctor would have us do?

Yes you're right, respond.

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Thankyou to Mandela

Thankyou to Nelson Mandela for the wonderful gifts he gave humanity.

May he rest in peace and fulfilment.

The law of Thinking according to Bob Proctor

The law of thinking is knowing that thought as an actual force as real as electricity, heat, light, water or stone.

technically thought is just electrical impulese so technically thought as as fast as the speed of light. To comprehend takes longer unless it's that AHA moment when it can be instantaneous.

The thoughts you repeatedly think become fixed in the subconscious mind and those thoughts determine what will happen in your life.There is only one power, but it rightly or wrongly used. We have been taught to believe that we hang on to the good and do away with the bad. Bob Proctor says this is not true and that they are simply opposing sides of the same coin. he goes on to explain that heat is the absence of light, cold the absence of heat and so on.

If you want to change your results in your life, then change your mind, your thoughts.

The law of success according to Bob Proctor

The law of success is about taking care of our thoughts.

It's about mastering your mind, controlling your thoughts and emotions so that they don't control you.

Because the brain is an electro-magnetic controlling station, it contros the vibration we're in . So you need to be in control of that so you can control your life.

We need to think about the fact that everything that comes into our lives has been attracted by us, we are literally magnetising it to us. So that includes all that we don't want and all that we want.

Take care of your thoughts and beliefs and feelings. examine them, ask yourself why you think or feel such and such. Keep what works for you and chuck out the rest!

You can do it! Start today.

Law of compensation as spoken by Bob Proctor

The law of compensation is about what you do.

Are you the best that you can be, considering you are connected to the infinite Life Force?

You get compensated for what you do, and what you receive is in direct proportion to

•  the need for what you do
• your ability to do it
• how dispensable you are

When you are giving the best that you've got, when you are improving what you're giving, studying the masters and professionals, when you are serving humanity for the better, then you will get your just rewards.

It is law.

So you can see that this works with the law of Attraction. You need to do the best you can and the Universe will bring you exactly what you want.

Law of Forgiveness as spoken by Bob Proctor

The Law of Forgiveness says that not forgiving is not forgiving yourself.

This is quite simple and specific : when you forgive the other person, you free yourself and open yourself up to love and opportunities and the Abundance of the world that is yours by right. 

When you hold unforgiveness in your heart you are closed to all that potential and the laws of Attraction will not work for you as well as they could.

It is a big mistake to ignore any of these laws - but remember thay all work together in harmony.

Everything in the Universe will rush to be at your side and support you when you are working in harmony with the laws.

law of receiving as argued by Bob Proctor

The Law of receiving is actually the law of giving.

When you give of yourself whether it be time, energy, money, support or information, your actions create a vacuum. This vacuum needs to be filled because Nature hates empty space!

Before you can receive you must be willing to give. When you willingly (not grudgingly) give, then you can gracoisly receive!

We're so wired to get things in our modern day that we sometimes forget to give, and have forgotten the spiritual fulfilment from giving.

Try it and see.