Self esteem is about loving yourself

self esteem is about loving yourself and not avoiding your feelings.

It's about choosing actions in your life that nurture who you are rather than you self sacrificing for kids, work, partner or other family. 

Whenever you feel a feeling you don't like then ask yourself what is the most loving action you can do for right now....

Remember, enjoy yourself in this great adventure of life!

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Thanks for reading this blog. Ruth 

Everything that stands in your way is an opening for something much deeper

Everything that stands in your way is really an opening  for something much deeper if you only stop resisting it.

When you hit a wall time and time again it's a good idea to stop doing it before you get a hole in your head or you put a hole in the wall!

But what this really means is that there is another door that needs opening and that you want to find it.

So go find it. 

Be courageous and just do it.

If you feel fear it's probably a good sign

If you feel fear when you are about to do something newthen it's probably a good thing. 

This basically means you are moving beyond your comfort zone.

And in this way you'll learn and move on.

yeah!

go for what you want

Go for what you want and in that way you'll keep focused.

What i mean is everyday, in every way, in every minute of your conscious awareness, go for what you want.

Boring eh?

No, committed work, but certainly never boring. and the more you do it, the easier it gets, and the more fun you have.

And of course that's what life is about - pursuing happiness and helping others to do the same.

Thankyou All that Is.