Have faith

have unequivocal faith that the Universe is sustaining you.

Just accept that and you don't have to fight all the time.

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Thanks.

Find out your imprisoning negative beliefs

Find them out and persistently work with them.

These are the thoughts that have been lodged in your subconscious since you were a small child. You didn't put them there, but all the influences you had when you were young became part of your subconscious. Change them to the positive ones you want by consistent, persistent  and daily effort.

Step by step and bit by bit until you start seeing results of you feeling happier and more confident.

Visualisation as essential to manifestation

you need to visualise, imagine or think about what you want.

having the thoughts of positive things happening is great but you need to feel it, to think it, to put yourself in the picture, to think through what it would be like to have or be or do the something you desire so much.

Do it. Even if you think you can't visualise you can think about or conceptualise. Everyone can.

Good persistence, and good luck, but it is in your hands.

What do you think?

Your subconscious mind is always being hypnotised

by your sabotaging thoughts, your negativity, your way of thinking

that you automatically do and think and behave.

Being angry, having ugly thoughts, having clutter or dirt in your house, hating self, having addictions all contribute to stopping you manifest what you really want even if you are doing all the right positive affirmations. 

So don't be lazy, be focused and organise what you want.

What do you do when you've had a really bad hair day?

What do you do when you've had a really really bad hair day?

You do something really nice and nurturing for yourself.

Please comment below on something you've done recently that's made you feel really good.

Self esteem is about loving yourself

self esteem is about loving yourself and not avoiding your feelings.

It's about choosing actions in your life that nurture who you are rather than you self sacrificing for kids, work, partner or other family. 

Whenever you feel a feeling you don't like then ask yourself what is the most loving action you can do for right now....

Remember, enjoy yourself in this great adventure of life!

Please talk to me on inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com or ph +64221604201. 

Thanks for reading this blog. Ruth 

Everything that stands in your way is an opening for something much deeper

Everything that stands in your way is really an opening  for something much deeper if you only stop resisting it.

When you hit a wall time and time again it's a good idea to stop doing it before you get a hole in your head or you put a hole in the wall!

But what this really means is that there is another door that needs opening and that you want to find it.

So go find it. 

Be courageous and just do it.