Have faith

have unequivocal faith that the Universe is sustaining you.

Just accept that and you don't have to fight all the time.

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Thanks.

Find out your imprisoning negative beliefs

Find them out and persistently work with them.

These are the thoughts that have been lodged in your subconscious since you were a small child. You didn't put them there, but all the influences you had when you were young became part of your subconscious. Change them to the positive ones you want by consistent, persistent  and daily effort.

Step by step and bit by bit until you start seeing results of you feeling happier and more confident.

Visualisation as essential to manifestation

you need to visualise, imagine or think about what you want.

having the thoughts of positive things happening is great but you need to feel it, to think it, to put yourself in the picture, to think through what it would be like to have or be or do the something you desire so much.

Do it. Even if you think you can't visualise you can think about or conceptualise. Everyone can.

Good persistence, and good luck, but it is in your hands.

What do you think?

Your subconscious mind is always being hypnotised

by your sabotaging thoughts, your negativity, your way of thinking

that you automatically do and think and behave.

Being angry, having ugly thoughts, having clutter or dirt in your house, hating self, having addictions all contribute to stopping you manifest what you really want even if you are doing all the right positive affirmations. 

So don't be lazy, be focused and organise what you want.

What do you do when you've had a really bad hair day?

What do you do when you've had a really really bad hair day?

You do something really nice and nurturing for yourself.

Please comment below on something you've done recently that's made you feel really good.

Self esteem is about loving yourself

self esteem is about loving yourself and not avoiding your feelings.

It's about choosing actions in your life that nurture who you are rather than you self sacrificing for kids, work, partner or other family. 

Whenever you feel a feeling you don't like then ask yourself what is the most loving action you can do for right now....

Remember, enjoy yourself in this great adventure of life!

Please talk to me on inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com or ph +64221604201. 

Thanks for reading this blog. Ruth 

Everything that stands in your way is an opening for something much deeper

Everything that stands in your way is really an opening  for something much deeper if you only stop resisting it.

When you hit a wall time and time again it's a good idea to stop doing it before you get a hole in your head or you put a hole in the wall!

But what this really means is that there is another door that needs opening and that you want to find it.

So go find it. 

Be courageous and just do it.

If you feel fear it's probably a good sign

If you feel fear when you are about to do something newthen it's probably a good thing. 

This basically means you are moving beyond your comfort zone.

And in this way you'll learn and move on.

yeah!

go for what you want

Go for what you want and in that way you'll keep focused.

What i mean is everyday, in every way, in every minute of your conscious awareness, go for what you want.

Boring eh?

No, committed work, but certainly never boring. and the more you do it, the easier it gets, and the more fun you have.

And of course that's what life is about - pursuing happiness and helping others to do the same.

Thankyou All that Is.

connect to the Life Force whenever you need

When you are in need then connect to the Life Force.

When you are feeling down,

when you are feeling tired

overwhelmed 

can';t sleep

don't know what to do

are worried about something

feel angry

or whatever it is that takes you away from feeling centred and grounded

then connect to the Life Force.

OK how is the question?

The answer is breathe in the blue/violet light.

Breathe it in to your very being with your feet planted firmly on the ground ( standing or sitting).

This is just one way.

Perhaps you could add your own comment below?   

Don't ever give up!

Don,t ever give up!

Some days you think you aren't getting there or life is too overwhelming or that you've worked hard enough for very little gain. 

What do you do when this happens?

!) Remember how you felt before you started all this work.

!!) Remember how often you were thinking what you no longer want to think.

!!!) Remember your contract you made with yourself.

!!!!) Remember to pat yourself on the back for what you have achieved

!!!!!) Remember to approve of yourself and 

!!!!!!) remember to do this every time you're a bit down.

Reaffirm your commitment to yourself  and enjoy the moment.

identify your particular prison

identify your prison & ask it to leave. tell it you have appreciated it in the past but now can it lovingly go?                  you now willingly let it go and feel it going & give thanks. everyday please.

The purpose of life could be to help all sentient beings

The purpose of life could be to help all sentient beings,

to help them pursue happiness. This might mean practicing generosity, not hurting others , patience and joyous effort. 

Joyous effort is the opposite of laziness and procrastination, and laziness attracts more of the same meaningless energy.

We procrastinate when we think we are too old, too tired, too deluded, too slow, not enough time, not enough money, thinking you're not good enough and thinking you can't help others.

This is a Buddhist notion and is for all beings with consciousness.

say this is the old you

And get behind me!

to those old thoughts that stuff you about.

Do it frequently, so you can let in the new thoughts of abundance, ease and joy!

Shift from the old thinking

You were born perfect.

The most destructive force for us humans is self talk running out of control 24/7.

Nothing else really stops you from being the best you can be.

Have a belief that life gets better.

Have a belief that life gets better.

Survive or live?

Do you want to go through life just surviving or do you want to live?

If you choose the first then you'll just keep going the way you are and be marking time, read wasting time.

If you choose the second, then you'll have to do something different, and you'll have to embrace the fear that is holding you back.

Please do it for your sake and for the world's.

You have a lot to offer and you are a wonderful person.

Make a decision.

Struggle is focusing on what you don't want

Struggle is focusing on what you don't want. 

If  it's happened before you could just let it go in a split second! Use the present moment to shift your focus for a better life of your future.

When you're in alignment and not fighting, then you're connected to the Life Force and you'll feel powerful an allow others to do the same.

Choose

Choose between abundance and struggle.

Go on do it now, and do it for each moment you are aware of. Make a commitment to it every day!

And have fun!

Make more decisions

You make your choices either consciously or unconsciously.

You either 1) have the intention to learn or develop love for yourself and extend it outwards or 

                 2) resist and avoid life and loving self - which in turn leads to pain.

Which one are you choosing consciously or unconsciously?

How about choosing which one you want consciously?

You need to make decisions

You need to make a decision :

are you going to be positive and love yourself or 

are you going to be negative and beat yourself up?

Whenever someone complains to you say to them "I love you" out loud or silently

Remember to ask for help

Remember to ask for help.

It's been said that it's not a good thing to ask for help, so it makes it pretty hard when you decide to do so.

When you realise that you are loved by all that is,you can openly and unashamedly ask for help. You won't get any help from self pity because this is encouraging you to be less than who you are. You are a co- creator of your Universe. Whatever you act on in this world, ask yourself the question : If I do such and such a thing would I be becoming more of who I am?

If the answer is YES, then it is a good thing to do. 

let miracles happen to you

A miracle is something that happens better than you programmed, and better than you expected.

Let them happen to you and be grateful.

It's hard to think there is something grander than you out there, but if you are willing to think about that, you know it could be an easy choice!
We don't really want to be grateful because we don't want to admit there's love out there when we don't really love ourselves.

Try it and see.

The end result of your manifestation is illusion

The end result of your manifestation is illusion because all of reality is illusion.

This means that you can have as much as you want because it is an illusion. What matters is WHY do you want it?

and How have you created it?

It is really alright for you to have more of it. - or less of it. It is an illusion.

but Questions to ask yourself:

Did you do it for LOVE?

Did you do it to create MORE of YOU?

if the answer is YES you are on the right track!

Well done.

If not, then you can still choose to be on the right track.

 

 

In the middle of all the hype of New Year

remember who you are, remember your connection to All that is, and remember to breathe in consciously the Life Force.

It's normal for most people to get drunk, get high, get smashed, get overrun by family and/or friends over this time of year. It's still important to be who you are, perhaps even more than before. You can still do a whole lot of the other as long as you remain conscious, and aware of who you have become or are becoming. Just stop for a minute every so often and take a deep breath and remember.
And think about this - your life purpose is not about what you do but about who you are. Thanks to Nadia Tumas.