Law of attraction

The Law of Attraction works with the other laws.

When you have a desire to make money but you are still running old stories about lack or undeservability, or when you believe that you only give when you have to, you attract to you like thoughts and results. 

In other words if you feel underserving, you will atract things in your life that are exactly that, in spite of the fact that you might want more money in your life.

If you feel you don't have enough, then you will attract to you circumstances or results which are not enough, even though you might want more money in your life.

If you feel that your heart doesn't have to open up and be willing to give because why should you, you will create that not opened up result in your life, even though you might want to attract more money into your life.

Consciously you want more money, subconsciously you aren't deserving, you feel lacking and unwilling.

The subconscious mind wins because it controls about 96% of your thoughts through all that repitition you've given it over the years.

So the Law of Attraction works, but attracts whatever is in your subconscious!

Think about this and think about it again! Talk to your friends and do something about it!

You can do it!

Change your inside and that produces change on the outside!

This is an excerpt from Bob Proctor's 11 Forgotten Laws:

He's saying that there are no accidents, because everything in the Universe operates according to order and laws.

He's saying our understanding of these laws is incomplete unless we see them all operating as one. They don't stand on their own. he talks about mixing the laws together like the colours in a paintbox.

He talks about being able to send a spaceship to the Moon precisely because of the laws of the Universe (Physics). You don't build your house on the shoreline because you know

 that the tide will come in and wash it away.

When the body acts in accordance with these laws then there will results. It is inevitable!

We've talked about these laws before, so in the next blogs we will put them in perspective.

Please keep reading....

Your love for yourself

Your love for yourself is a gift to the Universe!

When you love yoursel,f all of the potential of you is activated and you shine forthconfidence and abundance into the world!  When you love yourself you are a wonderful role model to the world, you shine out life and love and light and peace. Your brain is relaxed because you know you are always in connection with the magnificence of the Universe, you feel grateful for every little thing and that gratitude grows into a momentum of energy that sustains you over the time you are awake and even while you sleep.

Oh I know this sounds too good to be true. 

The thing is you aren't perfect, so you won't always be glowing at 100%!

But that is all OKay!

The more you shine, the more you shine!

Thankyou for reading this and thankyou for loving yourself more and more each day!

whatever is holding you back is a gift!

You gotta be kidding me! A gift! what's holding you back?

Yes. Think about it.

Once you've worked out ( like talked with your subconscious) and recognised and acknowledged that what you've got is a big case of "lack of self esteem" lurgies, or a thought that says "the world's against me' or "Only some people get rich" or "I can't get better, my mother died young" or whatever...............

then that tells you what to work on to move on. You have to surrender to it ( doesn't mean accepting it) simply acknowledging it. 

So it's agift. Because that's what's holding you back. And you have to see it first so you can then take action on it.

So go talk with your subconscious mind when you're in a really relaxed state and ask it what the problem is.

Once you've got the answer and have got over your freaking out, you can do something about it.

Remember to do this daily.

Good luck, you can do it.

Want any further help? Contact Ruth on inchargelifecaoaching@gmail.com 

Letting go is an everyday experience

letting go of stuff is an ongoing process.

Whenever an old story, an old habit, a failure, a life's lesson, a trauma , a repeat trauma, a relationship that didn't work out ,comes up, let it go.  

You don' need it anymore and it weighs you down. It's like carrying a trailer load of rubbish around with you wherever you go! 

Wouldn't it be better to take it to the tip?

Here the Dalai Lama talk on peace and kindness and farting

http://www.upworthy.com/the-dalai-lama-has-some-very-uplifting-and-wise-words-about-farting?c=upw1

What are your beliefs and what makes them either beneficial to you or hurtful to you?

Your beliefs are nothing more than than thoughts which have been thought a thousand times.

They are thoughts which probably began when you were a child and perhaps have never been challenged and perhaps have never even been in your awareness.

Beliefs are practised thoughts whether wanted or unwanted (John Assaraf).

It's amazing tha,t isn't it? 

Once you realise what they are, you will also become aware that some of them serve you and some don't.

You will know that your beliefs (the unwanted ones) are driving your life, creating the reality that you don't want. 

What your responsibility to yourself is, is to unravel these beliefs of yours, and to accept them. If you want to stay with a belief eg that life is full of surprises, then you go on loving that belief. If you want to have the opposite  eg life is about struggle, then you accept it, surrender to the idea that it is yours, and then lovingly tell your subconscious (where it lives) that it's time for you to have control over your thoughts not the other way around. This thought of struggle you will instruct your subconscious to no longer respond to.

If you love yourself, this is what you'll do.

Do you love yourself enough to do this?

Do you need any support?

Contact Ruth on inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com

Love versus hate

http://www.upworthy.com/the-simple-beautiful-gesture-that-can-turn-a-crowd-to-love-instead-of-hate?c=upw1

It's easy to say money is only energy

It's easy to say money is energy, but what does this really mean?

The thing is, all energy is vibration and you get to choose which vibration you go for.

Did you know you've got free will, did you know you choose in every moment what vibration you are?

You choose whether consciously or unconsciously.

There is vibration of fear and lack and poverty and there is plenty of abundance of this in our world.

And also, there is vibration of abundance and love and joy and gratitude and there is plenty of that in our world.

Both vibrations of energy are happening right this very minute.

You choose.

When you choose the vibration of lack and struggle, then obviously it follows that you are choosing havimg money ( and other things) in your life as being hard.

When you choose the vibration of prosperity and love and gratitude, then you are choosing  having money (and other things) with ease.

 

Do you believe in fun?

Do you believe in fun or in working hard with no joy?

I was brought up with the work ethic of work hard.

Slog at something and eventually you'd get good at it and get a pay rise! It was left over from the Victorian work ethic.

Now it's work with fun! This is the key, this is the "fuel for everything" that Tristan and Sabrina Truscott talk about.

Work hard by all means, because manifesting success is about focused action, but it's substance (it's energy) is joy. 

So even if it's mundane, get into the joy of it!

Do you believe in the possibility?

Do you believe in the possibility of success being in hand?

Do you believe it is already in your hand?

If you cannot conceive of success being possible for you, then you are fooling yourself in only thinking

that you will one day achieve success.

There is no point in you doing all your hard work, because it will not change a thing, until you know in the depths of your being that success is yours for the taking (with gratitude).

Right now, wherever you are, whatever your situation is, breathe in the joy and gratitude that comes from having success, and you will surely attract it to you, like a bee to honey. You must, however be prepared to do this consistently for a period of time. The seed must be planted then nurtured and allowed to grow.

It is waiting dormant for you to recognise!

Thanks for reading this blog and may you feel inspired.

Do you believe that the cause of your life's results lies outside of yourself?

The cause of your life's results lies within you, within your conditioning.

First you've been conditioned by family ( however well meaning they are/were) and then you were conditioned by peers at school.Then later by friends and society, including it's cultural, religious, political trends. You are conditioned by fashion, by gender, by your height, weight and age.

In fact everything has a demanding impact on you.

We internalise stuff and spit it out as results in our life until we start realising that we can examine our thoughts held in our subconscious and keep the ones we want and gently coax the others out of being so important and demanding.

Finally we can start to believe and KNOW that our results in our life are because of us!

It's an exciting revelation to know you can do something about your life after all!

It's another dimension of loving yourself!

Pain and fear make you change but

Pain and fear can make you change but joy and hope are a far more graceful way of changing. 

Besides you can have fun on the way.

Check out this idea - you could change your mind by working and working and working with affirmations. OR you could change your mind by making a decision to do so and bringing in the joy that comes with it and the gratitude you feel for the change of mind already being accomplished!

Can you find the courage to express who you are?

Finding the courage to express who you are is best led by joy rather than struggle.

When you beat yourself up because you don't think you're enough or when you push yourself too hard, this doesn't result in producing the best you.

The best you is released when you follow whatever you do with joy.

So even if it's a mundane job, and you do it with joy in your heart, you will relax and the best courageous you grow.

Through joy is courage, and through courage is the way to express yourself to your greatest potential.

Perfect happiness is your goal, in the moment, in the fullness of you.

Apparently 10% of happiness is due to life circumstances; 40% can be changed in a moment by reframing your emotions and connecting to gratitude; and 50% of happiness comes from pursuing happiness, self worth and thinking, reading about and listening to stuff about happiness.
Your happiness will increase and that will produce more and more success.
So just take that courage in your two hands and go for it.
Remember you are worth it.

What do you attune to in your everyday life?

What you allow yourself to attune to is what determines your vibration.

I remember once I was at a crystal healing workshop right in the middle of the city, and the building where the workshop was held was next door to a building site. That particular morning the bulldozers and giant machines with huge balls on the end that smash things down - they were there and in action. So you can imagine the noise. 

Well there were we in the workshop, being quiet and meditative! It did work, focusing and attuning to the crystals and their energies. Not everyone could - some ended up with headaches.

The thing is, You can't change the frequency of vibration of things around you but you can choose what vibrations you attune to or not! 

Check it out.

Contact Ruth on inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com

Struggle is not the only way!

Struggle is not the way to go! Unfortunately we've been taught that it is the only way!

You think about this... were you taught either at school or at home to go about getting what you wanted through anything other than struggle? Like you had to work really hard and then if you were lucky you were rewarded at the end of it. Or you learnt to be manipulative and get what you wanted through emotional blackmail or some other means. Both are struggle and both don't really work! think about the numberof times you,ve tried somethingor other and it hasn,t worked. I bet it's because you were struggling as part of the Victorian ethos that many of us seem to have been brought up on.

Well, time to give it up.

Make a decision to have fun while you are in process of manifesting.

Use the energy that you would have formerly spent on struggle, use that , but not the content to manifest what you want.

A delightful way of releasing a problem is the one proposed by Rudy Hunter and called "pulling taffy".

That word taffy is a type of chewy candy and not used in the southern hemisphere. I thought more appropriately of "blowing bubble gum". You know you chew, blow it out and try to get as big a bubble as possible and then you pop it!

Firstly you think of a problem/pain/experience you wish wasn't there!

Secondly you ask yourself how this problem rates on a scale of 0-10 ( 10 being the biggest pain/problem).

Thirdly you focus on it and chew blow and pop the gum ( figuratively or in reality) and do this for several minutes until you stop caring so much.

Lastly you re-rate the problem/pain/experience on th same scale. You may have to do it several times, but it works!

It's brilliant and so simple and so much fun -- the absolute opposite of struggle.

NB If you have a pain ask your body what this part of your body is not wanting you to feel. The answer can sometimes be freaky. 

Slow down and relax - when you're relaxed your brain becomes more active & potentially positive

Shortcut to success - don't get stuck in the muck

This is a shortcut because it's a tip, it's about getting "rid of" what's in the way.

And it's not really "getting rid of" what's in the way, in the sense of wiping it out of existence. It's about understanding that if you want success, you focus on the goal. It also means you avoid all the gunk in the way. All the reasons why you think you shouldn't be successful, why ity might not work, why something bad could happen and on and on worry, worry you IGNORE and walk right over the top of them . remember they are all illusions. When you don't get stuck in the muck, you are focusing all of your energy on to that bulls eye and you can take it out, no problems. No worries mate, you can do it! There is no struggle involved, you are manipulating energy to make it work for you! Work with what you want, not what you don't want!

The usual gunk for most people seems to be;

lack of self worth

lack of trust

and 

no connection to the Universal Life Force or gratitude.

Contact Ruth on inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com and thanks for reading this blog!

The importance of being earnest in the pusuit of your life purpose

Why is it so important to find your life purpose?

It's so important because that's where your heart lies, that's where your talent lies, that's where your happiness lies and that's where the present moment lies.

When you are following your life purpose, you are living in the moment.

Remember, when you are living so totally and joyously in the present, you are connected to the Universal life force or Chi or whatever you call it. You are then in your greatest power.

So why not tap into that?

Why not be the best, the fullest you can be?

Why not love yourself that much!

It's scary, isn't it, being as good as you can be? 

And I don't mean being a perfectionist!

Be the best you can be.

It's scary because we have all sorts of things in society that tell us that's being selfish or egotistical or narcissicic. And those voices we,ve internalised unfortunately.

Anyawy, you can just tell those voices to get behind you, to stop, command them forcefully and move in to the new you.

Good luck!

Contact Ruth on inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com for further information.

You only have to have 51% of dominant positive thoughts

before things really start to shift, yes you only need 51% of positive thoughts. (Marilyn Jennett)

This is such a relief isn"t it, you don't have to change everything at once? 

In the beginning it feels so hard to even contemplate the thought of change? You've been stuck for so long, you've put up with that negativity for so long it's almost like a friend. Familiar and shameful, but familiar none the less.

The good news is all of this can shift.

Don't be too proud to ask for help and a good place to start is with your guides. Now you might freak out at this idea. When you thought you were alone when you had those thoughts about killing your girlfriend or strangling your father; when you thought you weren't worth it and you could sacrifice your self for the price of their love... sorry I've got news for you, you weren't alone.

No one is alone - we all have guides with us from the moment we are born. They have been there since the beginning. If you don't believe in guides try that little friend you had when you were a kid, try the familiar in the animal, try that small voice you.ve sometimes heard (well at least used to). 

Thanks for thinking about this.

The morning you wake up

and realise you are connected to Source, you feel so peaceful.

You also feel joyous and centred and energised and you appreciate the sun or the rain or even the wind. You have boundless energy because it is continually renewing and you feel your life to be abundant and so so cool. You are grateful beyond words and I'd like to say to you reading my blog, blessings.. and you too can feel this way.

From this connection with spirit or Life or the Infinite all else flows. Know it.

Desire creates lack

When you're in the wanting frame of mind then you are missing something, you are incomplete, you are lacking.

When you are feeling lack, then you struggle, and this, my friend is the opposite of abundance.It will no more draw to you abundance than an old shoe. 

It's weird isn't it? that we thought we had to desire something in order to have it, and we  had to desire something really badly so that that would manifest. But it doesn't work.

The thing is, we have all we need within us now. We don't need to crave something and hey presto it will materialise. No, we have to know that we are grateful for what we have. Arjana Ardagh says " desire is a disease. The antidote is the conscious practice of gratitude. Gratitude flips you into the now. Into a now that is already full, and lays the foundation to greater and greater fullness."

Focus your intentions when manifesting

Focusing is about concentration of energy.

There are no thoughts involved, you must simply be relaxed, be connected to Source and allow no thoughts of " what if I fail? or I'm not good enough " to impinge in that split second of manifestation. Be full of joy, abundnace, excitement, gratitude in the knowing that it is so. That when you concentrate your energy (connected to Source) it acts like a laser to attract exactly what you had in mind.

Almost everything we do and say is the product of the subconscious

Can you believe that almost everything we do and say comes from our memory and comes from our subconscious?

We almost never respond from a clean slate to things that happen in our lives. We respond through the filter of what's happened before, of what we've ever read or seen before. In other words, our responses to the world are steeped in what was, they're not pure responses. They are distorted. And it's distortions are often linked to emotions which give more weight.

Unless of course you decide to be free of all that. You need to change emotional memory into simply facts,. In other words, you need to release the feelings that have got stuck.

To do this, be connected to Source, make a decision to let go and do some action that you've already told yourself means "letting go". This could be a ritual of some sort, a burning, a pulling the taffy apart, a ripping apart , a whateve,r but some action that signifies letting go.  

Gay Olympics in russia - what if one wins?

http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2013/11/05/all-out-releases-pro-lgbt-russian-winter-olympics-video/

Judgements of others are really about yourself

When you make a judgement of another person you are really judging yourself, which as you know is not very loving.

You can simply use the words "just like me" to add to any comment you make about another, whether it is for good or bad.

For example, you may overhear someone discussing their mother-in-law in derogatory ways, and you can say "wow she's so critical, just like me.' Or you might be part of a conversation where someone is called really stupid,.... just like me. Or maybe it's someone who's really smart, just like me, or really raging mad, just like me.

In this way, you can work out the statements you make where you need to make some changes to your belief systems.

Just note them, have a laugh, no judgments and move on to more loving ways of seeing yourself and others.

Thanks to Arjana Ardagh in The Last Laugh for his brilliant comments, just like mine.

Every one of us has a deep rooted fear

We all have a deep rooted fear that holds us back.

This is a quote from Arjan Ardagh's The Last Laugh.

"Every human being is running away from something they don't want to feel.If you're running away from" I'm weak" , you can go to the gym all you like and build pecs so big you'll .... but none of it makes any difference until you face the dark caves in your own mind. If you avoid your own fears you fill your life with endless distraction."

Check out your own fears and ask yourself questions about them and answer honestly. Look in the mirror and check your truthfulness. Don't be horrified with the answers, simply look at them without judgement. Then make a decsion that that was you in the past. Reaffirm your new beliefs.

Good luck.