Struggle is not the only way!

Struggle is not the way to go! Unfortunately we've been taught that it is the only way!

You think about this... were you taught either at school or at home to go about getting what you wanted through anything other than struggle? Like you had to work really hard and then if you were lucky you were rewarded at the end of it. Or you learnt to be manipulative and get what you wanted through emotional blackmail or some other means. Both are struggle and both don't really work! think about the numberof times you,ve tried somethingor other and it hasn,t worked. I bet it's because you were struggling as part of the Victorian ethos that many of us seem to have been brought up on.

Well, time to give it up.

Make a decision to have fun while you are in process of manifesting.

Use the energy that you would have formerly spent on struggle, use that , but not the content to manifest what you want.

A delightful way of releasing a problem is the one proposed by Rudy Hunter and called "pulling taffy".

That word taffy is a type of chewy candy and not used in the southern hemisphere. I thought more appropriately of "blowing bubble gum". You know you chew, blow it out and try to get as big a bubble as possible and then you pop it!

Firstly you think of a problem/pain/experience you wish wasn't there!

Secondly you ask yourself how this problem rates on a scale of 0-10 ( 10 being the biggest pain/problem).

Thirdly you focus on it and chew blow and pop the gum ( figuratively or in reality) and do this for several minutes until you stop caring so much.

Lastly you re-rate the problem/pain/experience on th same scale. You may have to do it several times, but it works!

It's brilliant and so simple and so much fun -- the absolute opposite of struggle.

NB If you have a pain ask your body what this part of your body is not wanting you to feel. The answer can sometimes be freaky.