Shyness is about lack of confidence
and lack of confidence is about lack.
It is about thinking you aren't good enough, that you're not worth it and that you can't help it.
Shyness is about thinking that that's the way you are! And not only that, but that's the way you are going to stay.
We have been brainwashed into thinking that we have no choice, because, yes you've got it! That's the way we are.
Well, I was wrong too. I used to think that just because I was shy, I couldn't do anything about it.
I used to hide behind all sorts of people so I wouldn't be confronted by anything much. I kept myself in a cocoon. I even used to cross the road so I wouldn't have to talk to someone I knew and I'd spotted ( but they hadn't yet spotted me).
It seems incredible to think of all this now, but then, it was very real, and painful with it. After a while,I started thinking that I was missing out on all the good things in life and I would make myself say things and do things. I soon realised that it is a choice!
Shyness and lacking in self confidence is a choice!
This is great news, because it means you can change your choice.
What that means, is being conscious of what you choose every second of every day!
Hard work? Yes, but it's worth it.
Contact me for a plan to get yourself choosing self confidence all the time.
inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com or ph NZ 221604201, Skype inchargelifecoaching100
and lack of confidence is about lack.
It is about thinking you aren't good enough, that you're not worth it and that you can't help it.
Shyness is about thinking that that's the way you are! And not only that, but that's the way you are going to stay.
We have been brainwashed into thinking that we have no choice, because, yes you've got it! That's the way we are.
Well, I was wrong too. I used to think that just because I was shy, I couldn't do anything about it.
I used to hide behind all sorts of people so I wouldn't be confronted by anything much. I kept myself in a cocoon. I even used to cross the road so I wouldn't have to talk to someone I knew and I'd spotted ( but they hadn't yet spotted me).
It seems incredible to think of all this now, but then, it was very real, and painful with it. After a while,I started thinking that I was missing out on all the good things in life and I would make myself say things and do things. I soon realised that it is a choice!
Shyness and lacking in self confidence is a choice!
This is great news, because it means you can change your choice.
What that means, is being conscious of what you choose every second of every day!
Hard work? Yes, but it's worth it.
Contact me for a plan to get yourself choosing self confidence all the time.
inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com or ph NZ 221604201, Skype inchargelifecoaching100
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