You hear with your ears but you listen with your emotions

Just because you hear something doesn't mean you absorb it as it was intended.

That means, even if you hear some words of wisdom you may not apply them to yourself or you may have a negative feeling in response to what you hear so therefore that is what you actually hear.
Hence Bob Proctor's statement " you hear with your ears but you listen with your emotions."
If you hear the words "Your reality is created by those outside of you" you will either agree or disagree and have subsequent emotions.
If you hear the statement " you are responsible for your destiny" you also have a negative or positive response and feelings attached. And that emotion determines whether you absorb that information you heard, or not.
What do you do?
Do you want to be clearer about what you do and think?
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