There used to be an old adage saying no pain, no gain.This is not true. In order to gain , you don't have to experience pain. I have certainly learnt a lot from both times- from not having any pain, and also from having pain.
But having said that, I want to say again that I have had periods of extreme pain, of the physical and of the emotional/spiritual sort, and I have passed through them and gained. That is, I have learnt from those times. I wouldn't wish them on anyone, but I want you to know it is possible you too can come through - if you have the thought that you desire it.
When you desire something you put something in process , that is change. That is not all that is required, but it's a good start. You do have to have the desire, you have to believe it is possibe and you have to have the expectation of change.
Your pain could have had it's origin in a thought you have about yourself, for example, I am hopeless, I am not worth anything, I am depressed ; it could be from an emotion of pain/hurt/anger that you have carried around with you for years; it could be from a sense of alienation that you have experienced from family or society; it could be from an accident ( which wasn't really an accident).
Whatever the reason, your pain can be intercepted by your brain, by learning to use your brain to change thoughts about yourself, how you fit in to society, how you heal, how you become rational and peaceful in spite of what bones have been thrown to you.
You may not have been able to change what actually happened,but you can change your reaction, your perception of it. That is how I can help you, if you desire it.
Please contact me on inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com and I am sure I can help. If you are worried about money for this, don't be. Don't let that stop you contacting me for help. The first session is free and my heartfelt desire is that I help you. That is what I want to give back to the world. Service. Thankyou for noticing, and thankyou for wanting to change.
But having said that, I want to say again that I have had periods of extreme pain, of the physical and of the emotional/spiritual sort, and I have passed through them and gained. That is, I have learnt from those times. I wouldn't wish them on anyone, but I want you to know it is possible you too can come through - if you have the thought that you desire it.
When you desire something you put something in process , that is change. That is not all that is required, but it's a good start. You do have to have the desire, you have to believe it is possibe and you have to have the expectation of change.
Your pain could have had it's origin in a thought you have about yourself, for example, I am hopeless, I am not worth anything, I am depressed ; it could be from an emotion of pain/hurt/anger that you have carried around with you for years; it could be from a sense of alienation that you have experienced from family or society; it could be from an accident ( which wasn't really an accident).
Whatever the reason, your pain can be intercepted by your brain, by learning to use your brain to change thoughts about yourself, how you fit in to society, how you heal, how you become rational and peaceful in spite of what bones have been thrown to you.
You may not have been able to change what actually happened,but you can change your reaction, your perception of it. That is how I can help you, if you desire it.
Please contact me on inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com and I am sure I can help. If you are worried about money for this, don't be. Don't let that stop you contacting me for help. The first session is free and my heartfelt desire is that I help you. That is what I want to give back to the world. Service. Thankyou for noticing, and thankyou for wanting to change.
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