Acceptance is about stopping resistance or struggle to something or someone. It is about accepting the reality of a situation, that what is, is.
This way is about not creating struggle or upsets or tornados in your mind about this something or someone, and about not resisting it. It is just so.
It is acceptance when you seek NOT to change a situation or person.
It is also about finding the lesson for it.
If you have thought to yourself that you had wanted your child to be a strong individual, clear of purpose and mind and that she has turned out differently, then you must accept that. You cannot change her or the dramas she creates around herself.
There is no point in getting involved in her dramas for they feed off each other and get worse.
What is the lesson here for you?
I believe it is about acceptance, to let go of anger and control over the situation and to live in the present, knowing that any moment things could change for your daughter, but right now they are where they are.
This is truly acceptance, not only of the situation but also of yourself.
Your power lies in being in the present, being grounded and fully in yourself.
Your power does not lie in judgements of your daughter.
Try it and see how peaceful you feel.
Otherwise if you want help then email Ruth at inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com or ph +64221604201
This way is about not creating struggle or upsets or tornados in your mind about this something or someone, and about not resisting it. It is just so.
It is acceptance when you seek NOT to change a situation or person.
It is also about finding the lesson for it.
If you have thought to yourself that you had wanted your child to be a strong individual, clear of purpose and mind and that she has turned out differently, then you must accept that. You cannot change her or the dramas she creates around herself.
There is no point in getting involved in her dramas for they feed off each other and get worse.
What is the lesson here for you?
I believe it is about acceptance, to let go of anger and control over the situation and to live in the present, knowing that any moment things could change for your daughter, but right now they are where they are.
This is truly acceptance, not only of the situation but also of yourself.
Your power lies in being in the present, being grounded and fully in yourself.
Your power does not lie in judgements of your daughter.
Try it and see how peaceful you feel.
Otherwise if you want help then email Ruth at inchargelifecoaching@gmail.com or ph +64221604201
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