Are you stopping yourself from being the best you can be?

Have you found that society hates you because you're  Jewish, because you're LGBTI , you're too young or too old, because you're black, because you're a woman, because you're too big as a woman or too short as a man, because you're not beautiful or because you are different and don't fit into the mold?
Maybe society doesn't hate you exactly, but doesn't favour you either.
I was recently talking to someone who was describing himself as a potshot at small bore rifle shooting and how when he was 18 or so he'd go to the club and with no practice whatsover, he'd just shoot the bull out of the bull's eye. He always got it and of course loved it, but the other members of the club hated it and always sought to put him down and make sure he would never enter any important competition.
So to be too good is a problem for society as well!
The thing  is that when you internalise society's hatred for your difference, you become filled with shame guilt and or embarrassment.
The trick is not to take it on board.
The trick is to remember that it is their problem, not yours.
The trick is to remember that  you are a great human being, you are worth a lot and it is a form of self hatred to take on board society's stuff about you.
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